BDSM Communication Tools
Interactive tools designed to help couples communicate about BDSM interests, boundaries, and desires. Private, anonymous, and free to start.
Boundary Checklist Builder
Rate 71 activities as Yes, Maybe, or No. Build a clear picture of your interests and limits.
Kink Compatibility Quiz
Discover where your interests overlap and find exciting common ground.
Dynamic Contract Builder
Create a formal, structured agreement covering roles, rules, and boundaries.
Red Flags Detector
Identify warning signs and make sure your experiences are safe and consensual.
Aftercare Planner
Plan and communicate aftercare needs so both partners feel safe and supported.
Why use BDSM communication tools?
Good BDSM starts with good communication. Whether you're new to kink or experienced practitioners, clear communication about boundaries, interests, and limits is essential for safe, consensual, and enjoyable experiences.
Our tools are designed to make those conversations easier. Instead of starting from a blank page, you get structured frameworks that guide you through the important topics — from physical activities to emotional boundaries to aftercare needs.
All our tools are private by design. Your data stays in your browser, no account is required, and nothing is ever sent to our servers.
Frequently asked questions
Why use BDSM communication tools?
Good BDSM starts with good communication. Whether you're new to kink or experienced, clear communication about boundaries, interests, and limits is essential. Our tools give you structured frameworks to make those conversations easier.
Are these tools really free?
Yes. Our Boundary Checklist Builder is completely free with all 71 activities across 8 categories. No hidden paywalls, no premium tiers.
How is my privacy protected?
All data stays in your browser's localStorage. No accounts, no servers, no tracking. You can delete everything with one click. Read more on our Safety & Privacy page.