About BeforeWePlay
BeforeWePlay builds interactive tools that help couples communicate about intimate exploration. We believe that great experiences start with great communication — and that tools, not articles, are the best way to facilitate that communication.
The internet is full of articles about BDSM, kink, and intimate exploration. But reading about communication is very different from actually doing it. Our tools give couples structured, step-by-step workflows that turn awkward conversations into productive ones.
Our values
Privacy first
Your data stays on your device. No accounts, no tracking, no servers storing your results.
Judgment-free
We take a warm, approachable, sex-positive stance. Everyone deserves to explore safely.
Safety focused
Every tool includes safety notes, encourages safewords, and promotes informed consent.
Inclusive
Our tools are for all couples, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or experience level.
Contact
Have feedback, questions, or ideas for new tools? We'd love to hear from you. Reach out at hello@beforeweplay.com